Now, let’s have some alternative topic and talk about girls here! Girls usually have multiple thoughts about the same thing. Take for example, when we are talking about a certain issue about something, the girl might actually be thinking about the related things surrounding that issue instead. That’s why girls are unable to listen well to what guys are trying to relate to them.
What A Girl Like About You?
Different girls have a certain liking about guys. Somehow, God made everything so perfect… God made the girls interest in making themselves pretty because the guys are very visual beings who like beautiful things. And God made the guys interest in different hobbies and careers because the girls are very emotional beings who like that certain action in the guys!
For example, a girl might like a guy only when he does this:
- when he chases her… She simply loves being chased, and thus she will love whichever guy who chases her.
- when he has lots of money… She simply loves living in wealthy lifestyle, and thus she will love whichever guy who has lots of money.
- when he concerns about her a lot… She loves being concerned about, and thus she will love whichever guy who concerns about her.
- when he is very handsome… She loves handsome guys, and thus she will fall in love with whichever handsome guys around her.
- when he is really good in bed… She loves very fulfilling sex, and will fall in love with whichever guy who does a good job.
- when he is great in coaxing her… She loves being coaxed to do things and will fall in love with whichever guy who does that…
Fickle-minded Girls
And once a girl really likes you, it depends on her fickle-minded character to determine if she is still looking for more such guys to keep in her database (just in case)…
I personally think that a girl who does not give it all in the love and still being fickle-minded (most probably she’s not letting the guy know at all about her fickle-minded thoughts), this kind of girl is not worthwhile to consider at all if you are looking for a good girl… I am not referring that they are bad but because they have probably been cheated of their feelings so many times that they are not going to let their new bf a full dedication.
As such, many girls tend to choose to be with a guy who treated them well even though they might not actually love the guys. I feel really sad for these guys for having such half-hearted girls in their lives.
Sometimes it is not about being fickle-minded
Because the girls have that invisible criteria of liking a guy, when they see another guy who possesses that action, they will start to think for that new guy… Girls simply love to take everything into their hands… For example, they can be eating dinner with you while discussing what you might want to eat tomorrow when you felt so full that you can’t even think what to eat for tomorrow! In other words, while they might still be with you, they might be thinking about other guys who treated them well in the way they wanted! Do you get what I mean? They are trying to multi-task… Trust me, they might even thought of having two husbands in their head! It’s just in their genes for being so emotional when they are attached with the feelings.
So How Should A Guy Treat A Girl Since They Are Like That?
It is not a good thing to keep quarreling with them about such things. The more you quarrel about it, the more they will not tell you about it because they are afraid of making you angry. Instead, be a gentleman and love her for who she is. We, guys, don’t have to fully understand how girls think… But we have to listen to their needs… We just need to shower them with all of your love… Don’t really need to make things so complicated.
So How Girls Should Treat Guys? To All Girls Who Are Reading This Article
I think you just have to understand us more since we are super logical beings! We can tell you digital signals while you tell us Analog Signals… (meaning mp3 songs are stored in computer in digital format, while your cassette tape records in analog…) We love to be understood, while we understand that you love to be loved…
Conclusion
Guys = Logic = Hobbies and Careers
Girls = Emotional = See Actions And Be Touched…
See how perfect God has made us to fall in love with our opposite sex?
So when the girl sees her boyfriend did some action for her and is touched, she felt loved. And when the guy sees how much she showers her love for being touched, he felt loved too.
A guy can understand a girl by giving them lots of emotions (love).
A girl can understand a guy by understanding their logics more.
Is that simple enough?
