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Sometimes, we might have so much things to think about. And we are in the midst of working on something, and we could be worrying about something else inside our brain. It could be really irritating and it is making us unable to work properly with our existing job. For example, you might be worrying about your kid at home while you are working on a job outside… Even though you know that it is not going to help even if you are worrying, but you just couldn’t concentrate in your work! Does that sound any familiar to you?

Learn Your Mistake And Move On
The ability to clear your thoughts as soon as you can, will allow you to learn the mistakes as soon as possible and move on with the next thing in life! It saves lots of time and is making your life more fulfilling too. Do a little checklist below:

• Is this issue resolved already? (If not, solve it and move on!)
• Is this issue still bothering you after it is resolved? (It’s ok, we’ll talk about that later in this article.)
• Are you able to identify what mistakes you can learn from this issue? (Make sure you can learn something!)

Convert That Lingering Thoughts Into Your Lethal Weapon!
Here’s a secret… You know that we might have all the worries in our lives… But do you know something? Those worries are actually there to attract a more powerful solution which is in disguise! How is it so?

For example. Let’s say you are worried about not enough money. Because you have not enough money, please don’t ACT as though you have because of your ego! Just let it be known that you have not enough! Naturally, people will make sure to lend you some, give you some or even to donate some money to you! It is like you are telling the world that you have not enough money, the world will make sure you have it because this world is filled with a very positive energy which is godly…

In this world, positive energy will always be spread from one place to another. For example, if you are telling the salesman that you like this device very much but you have not enough money, the salesman will try to work out an easy monthly installments for you! Or, if you just stand there watching a salesman doing a demonstration and you are attracted to look at it for more, there is always a kind of positive attraction in you for that product which is being demonstrated.

Shhh.. Here’s a secret amongst the salesman… The salesman loves as many problems thrown to them as possible! That’s because when there’s a problem, there’s a solution! And the solution is their wonderful product!

So, if you really don’t want to buy a product, please don’t give that lame excuse because it is going to be solved anyway! Just kindly refused it and go!

Ok, I am getting out of point here.. What I mean is that when there’s a problem, there’s always a solution… It only regards about your decision to stand which side… It is either a Yes, or a No! Let’s say when you are shopping at Ikea, you saw a furniture that you like… Simply tell yourself whether you want to buy or not… Because whenever you start to measure the pros and cons about buying a product, you will also find yourself measuring pros and cons about NOT buying that product too! So my friend, stop your lingering thoughts and tell me “Yes or no?”

Associating Your Lethal Weapon To Overcome Your Lingering Thoughts

I remember when I first stumbled upon Carl’s website, I saw this video which is very useful in my explanation here. In this video, you will notice that no matter how firm you are with your decision to have that present, it can be easily replaced when you associate it strongly with another thing. Watch it carefully before you continue to read the next paragraph.

When you have a lingering thought which you don’t like to keep it in your mind anymore, simply associate something to replace that thought.. Use a lot of association of things with regards to that something that you want. Say when you hate to remember the day when your cat has ruined your clothes, you simply need to think of the days when you are so happy with your cat… Keep associating with more happier stuff… See more of the nicer clothes… think of what you are going to wear with those sets of clothes you have in your wardrobe… If you don’t have, go to the nearest shopping center and look for the clothes that you want to wear for that occasion… Bring your cat out for a walk… (which i think it’s impossible since most cats seem to be generally lazy!) Buy your cat some really nice treats! And to make things better, take that ruined clothes and cut it to let your cat wear… This cat might look really pretty with it! Start to associate it with lots of goodies!

Conclusion
If you have noticed, to clear your thoughts, it is not about saying that you want to forget it and it will be forgotten. It is all about associating something good and keep focusing on that association. And to make things even better, think of the lessons you can learn so that you wouldn’t make the same mistakes again… And to make triple-things better, start to take advantage of that situation and do something good! Use your ruined clothes and turn it into a nice dress for your cat!