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Before marriage, women always worry about the man they are going to be with. Hence their mentality is always on the lookout and also worrying if their current relationship is going to work or not because they treated marriage as a life-and-death pact in their lives. But for men, they somehow treat marriage as the next thing to do with the woman they are with because men always seem very optimistic with the marriage that they are going to be with. And if men don’t really wish to get married, that’s only because they have not really found a girlfriend they want to be with.

Woman’s Secret
Allow me to reveal the secret of woman that they are actually very emotional. Sounds common? Let’s hear more about it. When it comes to relationship, women may accept the relationship proposal from the guys when they found some feeling with the men. But along the way, when they found a guy who treats them especially well, they will simply open their heart for it even though they already have a relationship… Sounds like a betrayal? That’s only because they are being emotional about it… While you might not be treating your girlfriend well, there might have some other guys out there trying to treat her very well. And that will just sparkle the emotional thought inside her whether she has fallen in love with a new guy…

Woman’s thought about marriage
Women might have a lot of hurting relationships in the past… And that contributes a lot to their defensiveness towards a good marriage. They are always in the discussion mode… No conclusion… That’s why, they are especially careful when it comes to marriage.. Even though deep inside their hearts, they really wanted to get married with the man who loves them a lot…

How About The Guys
Guys are pretty straightforward in what they are doing. They will usually treat marriage as though it’s part of their big plan. When the guys tell the girls something, they have already gone through a lot of thoughts before letting the girl know… But the girls are telling as they are thinking… And hence, they are really emotional when it comes to making a complete decision… They are best known to be fickle-minded when it comes to making a decision… The guys are pretty straightforward in their decisions…

When it comes to worry
Guys’ worry usually happen only after marriage… That’s when they start to get really matured in what they are thinking… And to really plan for the future! But girls start to worry everything while the marriage is not over… And when the marriage is done, the girls will start to stay faithful without any other thoughts while the guys seem to think of marriage as a kind of “funeral” of love…

While I don’t have that experience of being married, I do think that marriage is something very joyous… and being married makes me want to settle down and start my own new family with children…

And because girls usually think so much before marriage (just in case they married the wrong guy), they would usually think of the idea about guys turning their hearts after marriage… They are simply a worry machine before marriage while the guys will become worry machines themselves after marriage! How ironical…