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I have not watched “The Secret” yet but I heard from friends that it is about the law of attraction. Way before “The Secret” was launched, I have a similar kind of definition for the Law of Attraction. It has conditioned me to who I am right now, and that I realize it has helped me so much in my path towards entrepreneurship that I am somehow used to things happening around me and to handle them with a cool mind.

Before I carry on, let’s have a look at the video below about a person who is going through a painful day of wealth conditioning for herself…

No, she wasn’t insane… She is just conditioning herself, exposing herself, telling everybody, making it very clear what she wants in life… She is doing everything she can to become the millionaire that she always wanted. This is not something everybody dares to say and do… Just try yourself by keep saying out loud and clear that you want to be rich, you want to get your goals and all the things for ten minutes… And you will get what I mean… You will feel really good inside… you will feel very good outside too! Everything that seems impossible is now possible… You have just eliminated the fear in you to move on and make that million dollars!

My Own Experience doing the same thing in 2004
I used to work in two sales companies before. Both have lots of sales training for me to take up to cultivate myself towards making a better life. Doing sales is pretty much hectic but if you can pull it through, the victory is sweet. During those days, I was asked to do almost the same thing as what the lady above in video did… I feel really good… And I kept shouting “YES!”… I keep saying the things that I want! I just keep on singing motivating songs and reject sad songs… I was at my peak at that moment… Then a few days later, the peak feeling went down… I have to keep on doing it on every single day! Just keep pumping myself, keep telling myself, keep making a breakthrough…

When I am on my own
When I no longer work with the sales companies and starting out on my own business, the feeling of both positivity and negativity keeps on haunting me. I have to do some self-pumping.. Tell myself that I can make it… Make myself feel that I am already at the top with the top producers… The learning curve was pretty much extreme and yet I have nobody to fall back to like in the past… And after I worked on my own for about 3 years, I am often been told that I am too positive in life… I am feeling really good, hearing that! That’s what I want… And now, I am working on my blog, talking about motivations as part of my interests.

Ok, enough for the video and about me… Let’s talk about Law of Attraction (in my context… I haven’t seen “The Secret” yet.)

What you focus on expands
When you think that you are really good at certain skills, you are! When you think that you are really bad at something, you are true too! It is all about conditioning ourselves to believe which area we want to be an expert in. And when we are pushing ourselves to become an expert in something that we are not actually, we will pass through a small barrier and become a real expert in the end! We have to believe in what we are working on…

For example, when you are working as a salesperson for an electronic shop, you are being treated as an “expert” in all the electronic gadgets in the shop. When the customer asks you questions about the gadgets, you might get intimidated because you are afraid that you might not know… The solution is simple… Simply read as much product information as you are working in the shop. Feel yourself as an expert being asked questions by the customers… Try to answer as much as you can, and pause the customer a while if you don’t know so that you can ask another salesman for assistance.

Simple Guideline: Just Do It!

What you say will become true
Be careful of what you say! It will come true eventually… If you come across something which you don’t want, don’t say it out! Because when you say it out, you are fulfilling the nature to take place… What we want is the supernatural to take place… Many times, we can prove someone wrong by forcing ourselves to make something happen supernaturally when it don’t really happen naturally…

For example, when we see our bank account to be at near zero dollar, we tend to say that we are broke… Or we will say that we have no money… By saying it out, you are assuring everybody (including the nature) that you are really poor! Try not to say it out altogether… I know it is really zero dollar, you don’t have to lie… Just don’t say it out! Keep your faith on things that are going to bring you income! And just pray… It works!

Simple Guideline: When good things happen, say it out! When bad things happen, don’t say it!

How you see things will become true
There are two kinds of people… Visual and non-visual

Visual people believe a lot in what they are seeing… And when they don’t see something, they will think that that something doesn’t exist… These people might get cheated because sometimes seeing is not true…

Non-visual people believe words more than anything… These people might get cheated easily by what people say if they are not built a strong foundation of seeing things…

These are the two extreme cases I was trying to say. But if you look carefully, it is not about how visual or not you are… It is about the direction you want to go and just believe it! If you are a visual person, try to think deeper than just looking for facts… If you are non-visual, try to look some more for evidence…

By positioning yourself to see the things that you want, you are set to go in the direction you always wanted… It is either you look at what you have now, or you look what the future has for you… It is always good to look at the future rather than yourself as you are not going to become where you are right now!

But logically, it is not true!
Yes, I can understand that… You have to ask yourself what you really want in life… If you want something and yet logic is pushing you to do something that you don’t want, you might want to choose to “close your eyes” and follow through by your faith of belief… It works to “follow blindly” sometimes… Just ask yourself which direction you are always wanting to go…

There are only two ways if you wanted to aim at Goal A but logically you can’t make it!

1. If this is the case, you might just choose to follow blindly and move towards your goal! You wouldn’t want to be dragged by logics, right?
2. Or you might want to change the logic accordingly to what you wanted and make amendments and modifications in you goal.

Conclusion
Remember that it is not about right or wrong… Logics may or may not direct you to where you always wanted to go… In fact, it is about which direction you want to head to, and use the Law of Attraction to give you that extra strength to make it through…

Choose your destiny, and go for it!

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