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Man can never understand woman. That’s the fact, and it shall remain. As a thinker myself, I start to have a deeper analysis about that and realize something very powerful about it. It might be true. To be very honest with you, I am not sure about how true it is.

The very reason why man cannot understand woman is that woman tends to talk as they think. The words that come out from their mouth are all pure thoughts, and you can almost never catch which sentence is the conclusion. Whereas man think through a lot before they even speak it out. In my case, I have a brain which keeps on generating thoughts for me to choose which conclusion I want to speak it out in that few seconds. Does that suggest this famous phrase “We are all man of our words” and not suggestive “We are all woman of our words”?

However, because women tend to talk as they think, they became a very powerful tool for us men. The things that we kept on learning from books and seminars, might actually come out from women’s words! And if you have read bible, the word “wisdom” is used as a “her” as reference, and not “it” or “he”. Women have so much wisdom in them, we can’t just ignore whatever they have said, even though 80% of their words aren’t conclusions.

It was an interesting analysis I have been learning ever since I got myself a girlfriend recently. And with the women domination in my family (my two sisters and mother), I start to see a pattern there about woman… For those who have a wife, did you hear from her saying that those seminars that you have went could have been saved since she can even tell you about it?

The most wonderful thing about human beings in mind is to be able to synchronize your thoughts with your mouth… According to Brian Tracy (if I am not wrong that he’s the one), he said that we tend to speak slower than we have thought and hence we are unable to get to the stage of expressing ourselves correctly to the people we are talking to. And that is why we tend to see women becoming the one who talk the most when their husbands went for counsellings with them for settlement in their quarrels, while the husbands would probably be sitting there quietly… The husbands might possibly be have a big fight about the quarrels in their mind at that moment… (They probably thought it is useless to talk about it anymore since their wives don’t seem to be listening and keep complaining…)

If you are able to think like your wife or girlfriend to talk as much as you think, I believe the relationship can grow even more… And that you will start to learn even more from them too! Handling a boy-girl relationship is almost as hard as handling a customer relationship… Am I right to say that, Simin?